Ronk

MikeyH said:
No they don't, long time ago, I got married, moved to a different town and had children, a German Shepherd and now a Z4. My life is complete

Yes I see now you said your first house thought it was the one you are in now :oops: :)
 
I’ve just re opened this post

Yes I am home after hospital and time in a care home -which was bloody awful!

I’m still struggling around the house with a walker frame and a lot of furniture surfing.
You would say I’m a bit of a basket case. I suspect it’s going to be a long uphill struggle and at times I wonder if ever?

I get weekly specific physio but it is difficult as my wife has just been taken to hospital so I’m also trying to look after myself - neighbours have been very helpful - however all my “things “ need to be within arm’s reach so my seating area looks like a tramps squat!

If my condition was marked out of 10 i would say I’m a reasonable 3

The car remains in the garage, I sincerely hope I see it taxed again with me driving it in spring 2025

Never mind, I’m still vertical and I’m trying to retain a positive attitude!

Ps - The handrail is called a Norfolk Rail - it seems to do the job - without it I would be scuppered!
 
ronk said:
I get weekly specific physio but it is difficult as my wife has just been taken to hospital so I’m also trying to look after myself - neighbours have been very helpful - however all my “things “ need to be within arm’s reach so my seating area looks like a tramps squat!

Sorry to hear about your wife Ron and hope she makes a quick recovery . I know exactly what you mean by furniture walking/surfing and needing everything close to hand . You will get there its just a matter of time . The main thing is making sure you don`t sit down for too long and just keep yourself mobile as much as possible. Easier said than done I know but needs must :thumbsup:
 
It’s all happened at once !
Normally would be looking after her and vice versa

Once I’ve done breakfast sorted things I’m shattered. Of course I can’t visit her as I don’t have a wheelchair yet!
 
At least you are now moving about, that’s much better than it was, so moving in the right direction towards recovery :thumbsup:
 
I have to keep reminding myself that this situation is currently life limiting and not life threatening!
So get a grip!!!!

I had care twice a day- they arrived between 0700/ 1045 And 1700/220 they had to be show all home appliances so were like having chocolate fire guards - they weren’t free either!
 
ronk said:
So get a grip!!!!

You are going through a hard time especially with your wife being in hospital . Carers timekeeping has been horrendous for years now unfortunately but you just have to remember its not there fault . I take it you can contact your wife by mobile or direct to ward .
 
Oh - we will get there.
My cup is half full most of the time!

Carers!
Most of them ard very very caring people - I saw one of their payslips - £11.61p / ht
I was paying much more than that !
 
Currently horizontal!
I will just have to keep up the physio and await the outcome of my tests at the spinal injuries clinic next month
 
ronk said:
It’s all happened at once !
Normally would be looking after her and vice versa

Once I’ve done breakfast sorted things I’m shattered. Of course I can’t visit her as I don’t have a wheelchair yet!
On holiday for a week as from tomorrow but if you need a ride anywhere let me know.
 
Nanu said:
ronk said:
It’s all happened at once !
Normally would be looking after her and vice versa

Once I’ve done breakfast sorted things I’m shattered. Of course I can’t visit her as I don’t have a wheelchair yet!
On holiday for a week as from tomorrow but if you need a ride anywhere let me know.

That offer is very much and genuinely appreciated.
 
Thinking of you Ron. I would be worse than you, in your situation. Nothing worse than relying on others when you (obviously) never have before.

And the 'care sector employees' deserve a lot more pay for what they do. It's scandalous. :x
 
Update:-
I Ive been promoted - the physio has let me loose with a set of arm crutches!

The 35is is remains locked away in the garage now with an expired mot - but my medical records will verify the reason should when the time comes.
 
Progress is slow - but it is progress!
I have an appointment at the spinal unit next week so they will give me a more detailed prognosis.
 
My focus/aim is to be able to drive again.
Day to day progress is imperceptible but when I consider my circumstances immediately post accident I’m not doing so bad - my cup is half full!
 
ronk said:
My focus/aim is to be able to drive again.
Day to day progress is imperceptible but when I consider my circumstances immediately post accident I’m not doing so bad - my cup is half full!
Keep going Ron. We’re all rooting for you. :thumbsup:
 
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