Right guys sorry for no comments back but for some reason I'm no longer receiving notifications for this thread, don't know why as I was before.
Right, I'm going to go through them as much as I can.
Firstly though the guide is made up of other information I found along the way, not all entirely my work.
tintoverano, you've done well
as you've spotted FRM isn't in the e89 list it's NFRM as you've spotted.
I'll be looking at another update on it again to rectify the problems you've noticed.
Z4Sparky, yes that stalk assembly should be fine as long as you have auto lights and auto wipers then it'll do the job.
Right, I'm going to go through them as much as I can.
Firstly though the guide is made up of other information I found along the way, not all entirely my work.
tintoverano, you've done well

I'll be looking at another update on it again to rectify the problems you've noticed.
Z4Sparky, yes that stalk assembly should be fine as long as you have auto lights and auto wipers then it'll do the job.