mgrlane said:
Argyll Andy said:
Re visiting family members etc I will do so when I feel it’s safe and not putting whoever I visit at risk because even though I may be protected they may not be.
I don’t see me being vaccinated as some sort of freedom pass at everyone else’s possible expense.
I believe this 100% the 1st sentence. But the question is do you make this decision yourself or do you do it when "your told".
Also Andy, Say we were family and went for a coffee (you vax'd- me unvax'd, under 40 and in good health) would you consider yourself putting me a risk in this situation?
I will weigh everything up and see what fits each individual situation best along with whatever regulations/restrictions are in place at that time. This is what I think Ron (sorry if I'm wrong Ron) is saying. We've been under really tight restrictions while shielding and will not blow all that hard work, effort and sacrifice to take unnecessary risks at this late stage. Trust me, shielding was a lot harder than most folks realise but it was implemented to try and keep us safe so I'm ok with it.
At the risk of boring people by repeating myself, I was told quite clearly from the offset that if I caught COVID it would likely be fatal for me. I have an auto immune disease, non lifestyle related, which through the drug treatment required to keep me alive has given me CKD stage 4. People with lowered immune systems or auto immune diseases are at the higher end of the risk category. One major side effect of Covid that's not highlighted too much is kidney failure, already having that it's not a side effect I could risk.
So back on point I will assess each circumstance individually to both me and anyone else involved. Even if the govt. say it's ok to do something it doesn't mean I will.
Leading onto your second point, if you and I were to go out for a coffee, I wouldn't see ME putting you at risk because I've been shieling and on the few occasions I've been out recently socially distancing etc but what I would see as the risk to both of us and any future contact of ours is that we have no assurances that anyone we've come into contact when we were out with has been observing these rules with the same diligence as us.
That's the bit that makes me uncomfortable, the person serving us may not be social distancing at all, been at a party/illegal gathering 3 nights before, not sanitised their hands before lifting your cup and scone etc etc. I've maybe not put you at risk but we have both been put at a risk by behaviour out with our control.
I know we are all at risk of transmission of anything when eating out/mixing with other and fully understand that's all part of normal life but we're discussing the transmission of a highly infectious and deadly virus here, not the cold or a sickness bug which is why my risk assessment will be tighter for the next wee while yet.
BTW, you're paying for the coffee and cake (when we're allow out

)!!