Nictrix said:I dont know what to think. I can slightly see their point.
I can relate to that.
My Mum moved into a residential home in 2018, and they (very sensibly IMO) stopped all visits on 12 March 2019. But that meant we couldn't see her on my sister's birthday, what turned out to be Mum's last birthday, her great grand-daughters 4th birthday, my birthday or her grand-daughters birthday.
My sister and I did manage to visit her outdoors with distancing and PPE twice in the summer but sadly she passed away on 3 November (not Covid related thankfully).
Maybe for a 98 year old immediate quality of life is more important than prolongation. :?