
Smartbear said:just heard the Fawlty Towers (don’t mention the war) episode has been withdrawn & hastily airbrushed from history.
enuff_zed said:Smartbear said:just heard the Fawlty Towers (don’t mention the war) episode has been withdrawn & hastily airbrushed from history.
I watched that once..................but I think I got away with it!
Smartbear said:enuff_zed said:Smartbear said:just heard the Fawlty Towers (don’t mention the war) episode has been withdrawn & hastily airbrushed from history.
I watched that once..................but I think I got away with it!
Best keep that to yourself Martin, or they may topple you![]()
Rob
enuff_zed said:Smartbear said:enuff_zed said:I watched that once..................but I think I got away with it!
Best keep that to yourself Martin, or they may topple you![]()
Rob
Never mind. Still got my box set of 'It ain't half hot Mum!'![]()
Smartbear said:enuff_zed said:Smartbear said:Best keep that to yourself Martin, or they may topple you![]()
Rob
Never mind. Still got my box set of 'It ain't half hot Mum!'![]()
That’s it, you’ve set the Indians off now! Punkhawallahs have rights too![]()
Rob
They get in a flap about everything!Smartbear said:Punkhawallahs have rights too![]()
MrPT said:It's a small but ever-present proportion of their cognitive load that they usually just "suck up". I suspect that most have always been fairly open about this; perhaps it's taken recent events to make me actually listen to them? And I'm not talking about them being victims of overt, racial abuse here, which is rare in the UK and usually perpetrated by morons
Chim_lad said:Very honest of you MrPT and very well put.
MrPT said:It's a small but ever-present proportion of their cognitive load that they usually just "suck up". I suspect that most have always been fairly open about this; perhaps it's taken recent events to make me actually listen to them? And I'm not talking about them being victims of overt, racial abuse here, which is rare in the UK and usually perpetrated by morons
I too was reticent to comment. As a ‘BAME’, it is true that whilst we encounter narrow and small mindedness on an occasional basis, it is the small things that chip away at you on a more regular basis and it has got to the point where we cannot and must not allow it to continue. Overt racism gets an overt response but subtle comments get you thinking about why they were said. Whilst there is a small minority of idiots on both sides of the argument, it is a time to make those less aware of the daily struggles we encounter aware of what we experience just to simply get on in life. I’m sure we all have our struggles to get on in life and I ask for no more nor less than than the next person. Judge me simply on who I am not the colour of my skin nor the ‘ethnicity’ and implied judgement of my name.
The similarities to life are uncanny. We’re on this forum despite what we drive in terms of model, colour, engine, spec etc. and are each afforded the respect of fellow Z4 owners despite our differences. We even acknowledge and wave at each other whilst on the road. Why should life be any different?
MrPT said:Vornwend said:There is racism in this country and in my opinion the frustration with that and anger at an establishment that has been slow to act has been a major contributor to the whole statue thing and the protests. It might make people angry to see statues of well known historical figures being pulled down and defaced but imagine how angry and frustrated you might be if you or your family were fighting the disadvantages that the system imposes on you just because of the colour of your skin. Disadvantages that have operated for decades. I don't excuse the acts of vandalism but I can understand them.
If you accept that we are all the same then there is no reason why parts of the BAME population should have worse career prospects, be more criminalised, have worse health outcomes, be more likely to be stopped by police, be more likely to be unemployed etc etc. The reason for these things is that there is systemic racism at play and that they don't start their lives from a level playing field. They are not treated as equals. I'm sure none of us would regard ourselves as racist but until we start to cast a light on, examine and correct the causes of the disparities that are out there we won't truly be able to say we have rid ourselves of the scourge of racism. I don't buy the argument that says the reason for their position is that they see themselves as victims and everything would be fine if only they raised their game and stopped complaining.
Well said.
I'm feeling a bit ashamed that I've only just revisited this thread and seen that you have you have written something along the lines of what I was hoping to post earlier, but didn't quite muster up the ar-sed-ness to do so as it might create a bit of hassle. Speaking up for others when one might previously have kept one's trap shut is exactly what is needed right now and I'm sorry that I hesitated.
I understand the background to the majority viewpoint on here, but something needs to change. Call it a tweak/re-calibration/whatever. I've been shocked to learn that basically all of my black friends and colleagues spend a significant proportion of their existence putting up with unnecessary, race-related hassle. It's a small but ever-present proportion of their cognitive load that they usually just "suck up". I suspect that most have always been fairly open about this; perhaps it's taken recent events to make me actually listen to them? And I'm not talking about them being victims of overt, racial abuse here, which is rare in the UK and usually perpetrated by morons (which I imagine can often make it easier to get your head around).
I mean that if they go for a job in a white-dominated place of work and don't get it, they often feel it necessary to go through the emotional rigmarole of trying to figure out whether they were unsuccessful based on merit or systemic bias against the way that they look. They do this not because they are paranoid, but because they are well-educated and intellectually curious, and like most of us would rather leave such a setback with some constructive feedback to act upon.
If they get stopped randomly by police while driving through London; yes, it's true that the stats show lots of cars are stolen by people that look like them, but it's galling, nevertheless, to feel the weight of this prejudgement, first hand. It's one example of many small, seemingly insignificant forms of prejudice and systemic bias that I have no experience of (and hopefully never will) and listening to them talk about these types of events, their voices shaking, is very difficult because I see they are just like me in nearly all respects yet I have almost no ability to empathise with their situation. These are sometimes successful businessmen and women in their 40s or 50s who in the past I would have thought immune to such things, but this is clearly not the case, even when faced with incidents or slurs that I might previously have considered to be trivial.
I've heard a lot of people saying things recently like "Well if you topple one statue of someone connected to racism, where do you draw the line? What about the pyramids etc...?". Outstanding lolz, no doubt, but it does feel like the line needs to be redrawn. The toppling of a couple of statues is the manifestation of anger that has been bubbling under the surface of a far larger part of our society than we'd like to think, perhaps only perpetrated by those ill-equipped to express themselves via less disruptive means. It doesn't mean that lots more statues need to fall, it means that things aren't right at the moment, people need to pay attention to what is happening and there needs to be some kind of societal adjustment to account for it.
Chim_lad said:As a ‘BAME’, it is true that whilst we encounter narrow and small mindedness on an occasional basis, it is the small things that chip away at you on a more regular basis and it has got to the point where we cannot and must not allow it to continue.
Smartbear said:Chim_lad said:Very honest of you MrPT and very well put.
MrPT said:It's a small but ever-present proportion of their cognitive load that they usually just "suck up". I suspect that most have always been fairly open about this; perhaps it's taken recent events to make me actually listen to them? And I'm not talking about them being victims of overt, racial abuse here, which is rare in the UK and usually perpetrated by morons
I too was reticent to comment. As a ‘BAME’, it is true that whilst we encounter narrow and small mindedness on an occasional basis, it is the small things that chip away at you on a more regular basis and it has got to the point where we cannot and must not allow it to continue. Overt racism gets an overt response but subtle comments get you thinking about why they were said. Whilst there is a small minority of idiots on both sides of the argument, it is a time to make those less aware of the daily struggles we encounter aware of what we experience just to simply get on in life. I’m sure we all have our struggles to get on in life and I ask for no more nor less than than the next person. Judge me simply on who I am not the colour of my skin nor the ‘ethnicity’ and implied judgement of my name.
The similarities to life are uncanny. We’re on this forum despite what we drive in terms of model, colour, engine, spec etc. and are each afforded the respect of fellow Z4 owners despite our differences. We even acknowledge and wave at each other whilst on the road. Why should life be any different?
You don’t drive a 2litre do you?
Rob
exdos said:For every member of the BAME groups now living in the UK, they, or their immediate ancestors, have voluntarily come to live in the UK under their own free will because they consider that life here, despite all its shortcomings for us all, is better than the place they've left behind. So what exactly do BAMEs want? I note that Sri and Gopi Hinduja are in 2nd place in the UK rich list, so there's absolutely nothing holding any of you back other than yourself, which is the same for White people.
Vornwend said:exdos said:For every member of the BAME groups now living in the UK, they, or their immediate ancestors, have voluntarily come to live in the UK under their own free will because they consider that life here, despite all its shortcomings for us all, is better than the place they've left behind. So what exactly do BAMEs want? I note that Sri and Gopi Hinduja are in 2nd place in the UK rich list, so there's absolutely nothing holding any of you back other than yourself, which is the same for White people.
So, let me get this right, because someone or their parents or their parents parents chose to come to the UK from a pace that was worse they have to accept inequality, just suck it up and stop complaining, be grateful? The only way you can be treated fairly is to be born here and have immediate ancestors here (or white perhaps?). All they want is a level playing field - its as simple and complicated as that.
Vornwend said:So, let me get this right, because someone or their parents or their parents parents chose to come to the UK from a pace that was worse they have to accept inequality, just suck it up and stop complaining, be grateful? The only way you can be treated fairly is to be born here and have immediate ancestors here (or white perhaps?).
BeeEmm said:I cannot think of many people that we erect monuments to honour, nowadays, but I agree it is a drastic way to remove bird s**t from a statue of someone I hadn't heard of until they toppled it and threw it into the water.exdos said:For those who are happy to vandalise our public monuments, I would like to ask them which persons they think should be memorialised to replace the voids they leave behind?

mackharry said:How about putting an object that we all admire on the plinth rather than a person, say a zed for instance. Obviously a roadie tho, not a coupe, that would be terrible.![]()
exdos said:Vornwend said:So, let me get this right, because someone or their parents or their parents parents chose to come to the UK from a pace that was worse they have to accept inequality, just suck it up and stop complaining, be grateful? The only way you can be treated fairly is to be born here and have immediate ancestors here (or white perhaps?).
Not what I said at all. Anyone wishing to leave one country to go and live in another has plenty of different countries to choose from, so if they pick the UK, they must think this country is the best place for them despite all it's injustices. This country is NOT, nor does it pretend to be, Shangri-La. I'm sure that a good proportion of non-BAME people can also claim they've been overlooked both individually and in the communities in which they live, in their education and career opportunities for a host of reasons. Skin-colour is not the only reason for any unfairness, ask many women the same.