Probably the worst week of my life :-(

[TitanTim]

Thank you all for your kind comments, its been a great comfort, pretty stressful time as didn't realise how much there is to sort out, solicitor visit tomorrow

Tim.

 

[inkey$]

Tim, my deepest condolences - I know from your posts on here how much you put her before everything else and did all you could for her. Probably more. The car can be fixed, forget it - karma will win. And your mum is at least now at peace. Not much consolation I know, but I hope you have no doubts in your mind about whether you could have done more, because I don't think you should. Take care, I hope the next few days and weeks are kind to you.

Allan

^this.

Condolances Tim. The worst news and if there ever is a bad time of year for it to happen, this is it. Sorry to hear of your loss. As Bing says, karma effect will catch up on everything else, and aim to celebrate your mothers life as much as possible.

 

[gannet]

sorry to hear your news Tim, you have my thoughts.

 

[DumfriesDik]

Sorry to hear the news Tim. It does get easier with time, be strong.

 

[Beedub]

damn tim.... i read this i almost felt a tear come to my eye. life deals some seriously cruel blows.. my mom happens to be the closest person to me, i simply couldnt imagine life without her around. when this day comes for me, I'm well aware i will not cope well. GL for the future my friend and try and enjoy your xmas and new years. Best of luck,.

 

[TitanTim]

damn tim.... i read this i almost felt a tear come to my eye. life deals some seriously cruel blows.. my mom happens to be the closest person to me, i simply couldnt imagine life without her around. when this day comes for me, I'm well aware i will not cope well. GL for the future my friend and try and enjoy your xmas and new years. Best of luck,.

Thanks Beedub, I know exactly what your saying, luckily for me my mum was by bestest friend as well as a mum which makes it especially hard for me. The biggest thing I'm struggling with at the moment is going from 7 years of looking after someone pretty well constantly to suddenly nothing. You start to questions all things in life.

Unfortunately my brother lives 5 hours drive away so left to me to sort the funeral out which is all done now and sorting the estate out.

Tim.

 

[Smartbear]

Sorry to hear of your loss Tim, its a horrible time for you & your family to cope with-dont make any rash decisions until you have had a chance to get your head round things.
regards rob

 

[TitanTim]

Sorry to hear of your loss Tim, its a horrible time for you & your family to cope with-dont make any rash decisions until you have had a chance to get your head round things.
regards rob

Thanks Rob, I'm finding after being so busy the past 5 days being in overdrive and now things are slowing down is where its feeling tougher, decided to go back to work tomorrow to help take the mind off things, another factor is mums birthday was on New Years Day

Tim.

 

[TonyP]

Tim, I dont know what to say except to send condolences, it sounds like your mum was one special lady.

Tony

 

[sidbrown]

Hi Tim ,that's terrible news. But be strong I'm sure she would want that. And as someone said earlier things will get better with time.

 

[ronk]

I'm very sorry to hear of your loss.

I know how much it hurts. A mother is always special.

 

[Leesfarm07]

So sorry to hear about your mum Tim. I lost my dad on the 14th of November this year. He was taken ill on the Tues morning at 3am and went into hospital. Ended up on the Acute medical ward like your mum. He was transferred to the high dependency unit that evening and we were called back in at 3am the next morning. My mum and my four sisters were at his bedside when he slowly passed away. As you said it wasn't at all how I expected it. It was a very quiet peaceful moment.

 

[JustCruzin]

My dear Tim.... truly the very deepest condolences.

What we lose in life is another gain in some way. Mother's hold something in our hearts that can never be replaced.

JC

 

[Bad_Pritt]

Sorry to hear that Tim, especially around the holidays

 

[slick]

Sorry to hear of your loss Tim

 

[Finisterre]

(((Tim)))

 

[Zed_Steve]

Sympathies go out to you Tim for your loss. Hope you are receiving all the support you need, especially at this time of year.

 

[TitanTim]

Thanks everyone for your support and wonderful replies, I'm so grateful and feel very humbled.

I've contacted Dent Wizard and fired some photos of the Zed off so hoping they will be able to sort the damage out.

Tim.

 

[AndyZ]

Thanks everyone for your support and wonderful replies, I'm so grateful and feel very humbled.

I've contacted Dent Wizard and fired some photos of the Zed off so hoping they will be able to sort the damage out.

Tim.

Not sure where in the UK you are Tim, but if you fancy hooning with a few good ol' country boys on the south coast / goodwood area, pm me and we will sort out some mature rubber burning fun & maybe a pint? 8)

 

[Angelus666]

Very sad, I think maybe in some weird way it's easier over the holidays as you'll get to see all your family to share the good memories of her.

That's probably the nicest looking Z3 I've seen since I was going to buy one from BMW Sewell in Bishop Stortford in 1999.