I remember when I first got my car and was all excited about these options. There was a thread on Z4UM that had the entire list. The only one I remember is the daytime running lights. Now that I've driven the car as much as I have it doesn't even matter anymore. This car is so incredible that I don't even notice the little things. But then again, maybe it is the little things that make me love this car so much... hmmmm, better ponder that a while.
In the meantime, churchwa, I feel your excitement. You are so gonna love that car! If there is an option that you want programmed, be sure to give the stealer heck (don't know yet if you take kindly to the other word) until he/she takes care of it for you. Yes, it's OK to be that guy - we all were and are. Get your money's worth and don't let the stealer be a lazy punk.
Let us know how it goes and what options you find are available for your car, I'm interested to know what all is available for the new models.