MalcZ4, Whatever rocks your boat. If your happy about you're car then don't let anyone tell you differenly.
Back on topic... I agree to some extent regarding 19's. IIRC
aquazi noticed some performance issues with his wheels.
You could however get, for example, geniune CSLs which are in fact lighter than stock 18's. These are however quote expensive at around £1.5k second hand, but going by the fact that you want to respray your car I'm assuming you have a healthy budget for mods.
Best thing you can do is to find out the weight of 18" wheels (IIRC its around 21/22kg each side) and then find 19's that are the same weight or less.
Key here is research...
Regarding respraying the car I would also recommend a wrap instead.... Cheaper, protects the paint and you can remove it easily when you get bored and feel like a change. With isses with getting stopped it's very easy to show the real colour as you can open the bonnet and show the police the colour underneath and/or the door shuts (if not wrapped).