mrs w not sharing the Z love . am i alone ?

original guvnor said:
My g/f likes the car but won't drive it, nor will she attend any more meets as she was bored to tears at the last one and now takes the piss when I mention future events!

Ah that's a shame. Did she not enjoy the lovely scenery up in the lakes?
 
inkey$ said:
Mr Wilks, I'm intrigued as to your response to Mrs W. Silent non-agreement or flighty reasons against the sale?

My gf is weird; even with mini-inkey$ on the scene now she really wants me to keep the ///M. Says I'll miss it if I sell and points out that I've done that with pretty much every car I've owned. The weird part is that when she did ride in it I always drove too fast, it was too low and the ride was too bumpy. Secretly think she's a bit sad she'll never get to ride much in it again.

Not weird mate - she loves you. Soppy, but true. It's the reason Mrs B allowed me to buy mine - she know how much it meant to me and how hard I worked to afford it.
 
RubyBlueZ4MC said:
original guvnor said:
My g/f likes the car but won't drive it, nor will she attend any more meets as she was bored to tears at the last one and now takes the piss when I mention future events!

Ah that's a shame. Did she not enjoy the lovely scenery up in the lakes?

No, she thought we "drove like idiots" and that we were going too quick to appreciate the scenery!!
 
My lovely Jo Ann helped me pick it out. She's welcome to drive it but chooses not too. However, she loves to be driven in it. :D :driving: :D
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My wife loves the looks of the car and was glad I had it instead of a bike but said she would never drive it. When I took her out in it for the first time she said it was uncomfortable and too fast. Then, necessity came knocking and she had to drive it as the Mini was in for a service and she had to get to Uni.

She came back with a big grin on her face that evening. A month or so later (June) I was in hospital and it was a very stressful time for her so I suggested she took my car out with a friend of hers for a shopping trip - they both loved it. Now it's any old excuse to drive it and when I suggested I might sell it next year and go back to a bike she did her utmost to talk me out of it :)
 
inkey$ said:
Mr Wilks, I'm intrigued as to your response to Mrs W. Silent non-agreement or flighty reasons against the sale?

My gf is weird; even with mini-inkey$ on the scene now she really wants me to keep the ///M. Says I'll miss it if I sell and points out that I've done that with pretty much every car I've owned. The weird part is that when she did ride in it I always drove too fast, it was too low and the ride was too bumpy. Secretly think she's a bit sad she'll never get to ride much in it again.
after being together 29 years i offered a compromise of course :) Z stays & maybe switch the golf for a new shape C class estate ? ? 8)
not sure it worked though :D
i can see her point though but also the Z is a great motavation to get up & leave the house when its blowing a gale & pi55ing it down :| as it is now !!
 
mr wilks said:
she drives it home :D otherwise she prefers her golf & would never take the car by choice .
in fact last week we had a 30 min journey to meet friends for a meal out & she insisted on taking her golf if i wanted her to drive home :oops:
BTW she has no liking of alcohol . unlike myself :wink: which can wait for another topic :roll:

Lol. :rofl:
Some women just don't understand. I know both my parents made similar comments such as ride was hard, bonnet was long etc before I sold it.

Oh, how does one car over two make sense for u guys?
 
My wife doesn't drive (pedestrians and motorists nationwide heave a sigh of relief), but she does love being a passenger in the Zed, especially with the top down in the scenic seasons. Even bought me a BMW maintenance kit with all kinds of cleaners and brushes and stuff in it. And a very nice Z4 key holder, come to think of it. No animosity between wife and car at all. In fact, I think she secretly gets a bit miffed if I go out in the Zed without her. Gotta have the occasional solo hoon though!

Oh, and in case anyone is wondering if we're just married and still madly in love or something ... nah, we've been married 32 years.
 
Oakandacorns said:
I know both my parents made similar comments such as ride was hard, bonnet was long etc before I sold it.

I can't even get my mum in it to give her a ride, she had a hip replacement not too long ago and its just to low to get in and out. She'd just get stuck.
 
My girlfriend loves the Z4. She likes the design. I just sold my 993 though and she liked that more but so did I design wise.

She does rinse me for the forum though. She caught me reading about cup holders the other day. I haven't lived that down yet.
 
my missus will get in the discovery before the z4 unless the sun is shining and the roof is down, and she has done something to her hair to stop it blowing around.(?).. so 99/100 she jumps in the disco - which suits me fine
 
I basically come under the category " sad" I am sad for buying it even tho she admits its a "nice"looking car! Sad for going on the forum, sad for not using it that often unless the sun is out and its a dry day :headbang: Sad for polishing cleaning and generally fussing over it.
Extremely annoying for putting it ahead of everything else including her !! :D . I like sad.
 
Whilst I like to wrap up warm and have the roof down as much as possible, this gets veto'ed by the GF if she is in the car. Fair point at this time of year :)

Excessive acceleration and slip angles at mini roundabouts is also frowned upon :rofl: :driving:

On the plus side she loves Aston Martin's and would like to get a DB9/V8VS once a house is sorted and funds have recovered 8)
 
ab7 said:
Bing said:
Mrs B allowed me to buy mine

Glad I'm not married yet :rofl:

You make it sound like it's a bad thing... It's not, but it does require compromise - write the word down somewhere, one day it will come in handy. Along with planning - took three years of groundwork :D
 
my wife actually persuaded me to buy both of the zeds that we've had. not that i needed a whole lot of persuasion, but i would have gone for something a little more 'practical'. the zed is useless for me as a gigging guitarist in a rock band, so my wife has to act as roadie and take me to gigs in her audi.
 
mason storm said:
Well luckily my GF loves my Z and I must be extra lucky as she even understands my protectiveness towards it and insists on using her car where the journey would put my Z at risk such as parking in car parks :)

Mine too. She loves the Zed :D
 
Propose the following:

I'll sell the Z if yousell all the handbags and shoes you don't wear regularly.

Debate over and done with. :evil:

Incidentallty current girlfriend has a Z3M coupé tuned by Hartge. Might keep that one!
 
ChawenHalo said:
Propose the following:

I'll sell the Z if yousell all the handbags and shoes you don't wear regularly.

Debate over and done with. :evil:

Incidentallty current girlfriend has a Z3M coupé tuned by Hartge. Might keep that one!

i like that slant :thumbsup: however now i just need you to help me with her reply which i can pretty much guarantee
" well my handbags don,t cost £500 to insure + tax + mot + blah blah .
you soon learn that confrontation = arguement which only worsens situations with ladies .
i,m gonna keep my head down & ride it out . could be months before she goes in it again as i,m away mid dec then on my return i plan to SORN it until feb .
then she will be more interested in holidays in the sun :) :| i hope :?
 
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