To all of you struggling out there. You will get there. We just sold our share of freehold flat for the asking price after being dicked about by three 'good buyers'
One was in a small chain and didn't bother telling us for three weeks. Our estate agent was too lazy to find out.
The second was a cash buyer, who pulled out because he used an out of town solicitor and they didn't have a clue about systemic freehold.
The third waited until she had exchanged, then wanted us out in two weeks!
Our eventual buyers were in a chain of 5 already. They had no mortgage in place. 8 weeks start to finish!
Tips.
Use an online agent. Money up front means no need to be sharky. Also MUCH cheaper.
I recommend House network. No affiliation other than satisfied customer.
Insist on exchange at least two weeks before completion. There is a trend of exchange and complete on the same day starting to come in. It only benefits solicitors, who get paid for work done 'more than once' if things fail and buyers or sellers trying it on for a last minute 'held to ransom' price change.
Talk to your solicitor. Tell them to copy you in by email on any correspondence. It keeps them on their toes.
If you're moving a long way, rent at first. No traipsing up and down, or left and right.
Shorter chain, easier to look for a new house and you're a chain free buyer, so should be able to discount your rent off the next purchase price. You get to know the area as well so can make a more informed choice.
You will get there. Good luck to all.
TTT - Ccurrently looking to sort his 20th move out!