I used BMW MTL2 for my transmission fluid change a year ago. It improved shift feel a bit, but mine was not bad before.
I have no experience with Ravenol. In the US, they are relatively new, though they have a history of over 75 years in Germany. I did a quick Google search, and found some discussion on "Bob Is the Oil Guy" forum. They seem to be a reputable supplier of high performance fluids, but that's all I have for you. Maybe others can chime in with personal experiences.