Alright - Here's where I am so far with this
I have gathered these for a total of $220 USD from part-outs - really not that bad at all...
(#1) - Control Unit Passive Go - 61359134708
(#2) - Bumper Antenna passive access- 61356922212
(#3) - 3x Interior Antenna Convenience Access - 61356922211
(#4) - Bracket for Ferrite Antenna - 65206934497
Two comfort access/light package handles 51217250103, 51217250108 in tiefsee-blau metallic
https://www.realoem.com/bmw/enUS/showparts?id=LM13-USA-08-2016-E89-BMW-Z4_35is&diagId=61_1718
No clue what #5 and #6 are -- since they are greyed out on RealOEM.

What the actual freak? :soapbox: My Honda Bishko service manuals are so much more helpful than anything I've seen from BMW or 3rd party.
Maybe I'm manual impaired.
I still have to get E89 Drivers and Passenger's Door Wiring harnesses - 61129232415, 61129232423 -- Or would an E92/E93 equivalent also work in wiring length without modification? Anyone ever swapped one in instead of the more expensive rare e89 harnesses?
I'm hopeful to work with someone to build a custom wiring harness for the antenna, CA Go module, and CA Key - That's still the unknown.
Of course, any BMW service information I've found isn't being helpful to how this is laid out - trying to figure out the actual locations for the antenna and wiring runs. One antenna sits in front of the center console, one behind, one in the battery area... but the bumper one is still a mystery.
Help welcome -- and yes you don't have to warn me off of this being a difficult retrofit. I'm willing to fail, but not planning to -- If I succeed, I'll document it for anyone else who is interested.