derin100
Active member
What a complete load of nonsense being said above!
“Freedom of speech on forums” etc
As previously stated, of course we all form and have opinions on a every single car advert that we see. This is natural. However, that is a world away from the compulsion to constantly have to vocalise/publicise those opinions, especially when you form no part of any putative transaction.
That constitutes you being a busybody and a poke-nose, in something that is actually none of your business!
All of us have opinions. However, most of us realise that not everything that we think inevitably has to come out of our mouths. Especially, when it does not concern us in any shape or form.
It’s called “restraint”, “having a filter”, “thinking before we speak”, “thinking of the consequences of opening our gobs” etc.
Clearly, some people do struggle with this relatively simple concept.
As exampled here (yet again), this ‘poke-nosery’ has taken the form of, in as many words, publicly saying ( and, that is the essence):
“Your car is over-priced and is mis-described. Therefore, potential buyers steer clear! This car is not worth what the seller, who is also by definition a liar, is trying to fool people into buying from him. And, you can take that from me because I am an expert in these matters!” Yeah….”GLWTS” !
Imagine if you did this, not on Autotrader because it doesn’t have a comments section or forum, but if you persistently did it, for example, in the street outside someone’s house. Someone is selling their car and just as prospective buyers are showing interest in the car, you sidle up, uninvited with no intention of being a buyer yourself, and start saying out loud:
“This car isn’t worth anything like that! And, look how it has been mis-described. Take it from me, because I’m an expert, I would steer well clear of that one!”
Yes, freedom of speech certainly but what would people, rightly, think of you? Sticking your nose in, when it is absolutely none of your business!
In essence, how is this any different?
As said, all of us have opinions. Most of us have the ability to discern when and whether it is appropriate to vocalise those opinions. Sadly, there is a persistent minority on this forum who are seemingly not possessed of this faculty.
And, it is a very real and persistent theme on this forum. Otherwise, I wouldn’t have noticed it. I have been on many car forums since 1998 (nearly 30 years). It doesn’t happen to this extent elsewhere. Yet, it is a stand out feature here!
Sure, carry on championing ‘Freedom of Speech’ and carry on sticking your unsolicited nose in other people’s business. As far as I know, there’s no actual law against that either. That doesn’t make it right.
“Freedom of speech on forums” etc
As previously stated, of course we all form and have opinions on a every single car advert that we see. This is natural. However, that is a world away from the compulsion to constantly have to vocalise/publicise those opinions, especially when you form no part of any putative transaction.
That constitutes you being a busybody and a poke-nose, in something that is actually none of your business!
All of us have opinions. However, most of us realise that not everything that we think inevitably has to come out of our mouths. Especially, when it does not concern us in any shape or form.
It’s called “restraint”, “having a filter”, “thinking before we speak”, “thinking of the consequences of opening our gobs” etc.
Clearly, some people do struggle with this relatively simple concept.
As exampled here (yet again), this ‘poke-nosery’ has taken the form of, in as many words, publicly saying ( and, that is the essence):
“Your car is over-priced and is mis-described. Therefore, potential buyers steer clear! This car is not worth what the seller, who is also by definition a liar, is trying to fool people into buying from him. And, you can take that from me because I am an expert in these matters!” Yeah….”GLWTS” !
Imagine if you did this, not on Autotrader because it doesn’t have a comments section or forum, but if you persistently did it, for example, in the street outside someone’s house. Someone is selling their car and just as prospective buyers are showing interest in the car, you sidle up, uninvited with no intention of being a buyer yourself, and start saying out loud:
“This car isn’t worth anything like that! And, look how it has been mis-described. Take it from me, because I’m an expert, I would steer well clear of that one!”
Yes, freedom of speech certainly but what would people, rightly, think of you? Sticking your nose in, when it is absolutely none of your business!
In essence, how is this any different?
As said, all of us have opinions. Most of us have the ability to discern when and whether it is appropriate to vocalise those opinions. Sadly, there is a persistent minority on this forum who are seemingly not possessed of this faculty.
And, it is a very real and persistent theme on this forum. Otherwise, I wouldn’t have noticed it. I have been on many car forums since 1998 (nearly 30 years). It doesn’t happen to this extent elsewhere. Yet, it is a stand out feature here!
Sure, carry on championing ‘Freedom of Speech’ and carry on sticking your unsolicited nose in other people’s business. As far as I know, there’s no actual law against that either. That doesn’t make it right.
