A Tale Of Caution!

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Nova2k7

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 Halifax - West Yorkshire
Well after loosing my job a few weeks ago, ive now been dumped as well! met someone in December, she had a little boy of 2 and we got on amazingly, i live in west Yorkshire and she lived in Bedfordshire! i used to commute on Friday after work and then do the 3 hour drive on a Monday morning to get to work for 9! we did this for a few months and had a family holiday in May to Tunisia! was amazing and we got engaged on the beach! then at the beginning on June she said she wanted me to move down and be with them! So i quit my job of 7 years and left my home town, leaving lots of friends and family behind to be with her. gave them both everything i had and more, i treated her like she was the only thing in the world to me (which she was) and within the space of one weekend i came home to find all my things packed and being left homeless in a town where i don't know anyone or have any place to go! i was apart to start a very well paid job in Northampton but have no place to live there and dont like the idea of being in a town on my own! she was doing the guest list for the wedding 3 weeks ago and looking at wedding dresses! the little boy also thinks im his dad as thats what ive been to him for a long time now! loved him like my own! so now im back in West Yorkshire with no job and staying in my old room at my dads! its amazing how quickly life can turn around and smack you right in the fucking balls!
 
Ouch, sorry to hear that :thumbsdown:

Women are by and large fruit loops. Hope things pick up for you soon.
 
So sorry to hear that, that's awful. I hope you start feeling more positive. It's really awful and I don't know why someone would act like that. You are better than it anyway.

+1 to above - I heard some negative things about Plenty of Fish. But there are also weirdos on Match.com
 
Not good news :(

Go for the job though! If you've done what was needed to get it, dust yourself down, say "f*ck it" and go for it. You'll make new friends fast through the new job, find your local, the gym etc.

Good luck matey!
 
Ooh harsh mate :thumbsdown:

Women are odd at times, best to put it behind you and move on.

At least you still have your Zed, she'll never leave you :thumbsup: :driving:
 
Stuart Truman said:
Not good news :(

Go for the job though! If you've done what was needed to get it, dust yourself down, say "f*ck it" and go for it. You'll make new friends fast through the new job, find your local, the gym etc.

Good luck matey!
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As above
 
I really feel for you fella but life goes on. Having your heart busted by someone you thought was 'the one' only makes meeting your *real* life partner all the more sweeter when it happens. You'll be fine. :) You should cheer yourself up by arranging a fix-it day venue and time. :wink:
 
Sounds awful, really sorry to hear that. Heartbreak can be one of the worst things ever, completely and utterly consuming. You will be ok though. It may just take some time to get there. Get back in touch with friends, make plans - even if you feel s**t. Keep busy.
Remember though..just as shockingly as things can go badly all of a sudden, they can also go well unexpectedly. Life is dynamic and things NEVER stay the same - something my dad once said and its so true. Take care
 
Sorry to hear about what's happened to you. It will hurt until you want to tear your heart out...but then it will start getting better. Years ago, someone dumped me after the most amazing few dates and I still don't know why it hit me like a truck. Not ashamed to say I cried and couldn't eat.

I met her a few months later and she explained etc, and said we should try again, and I couldn't.....

Love is a crazy thing....
 
sounds like a roller coaster :o

Hope things turn a corner and get better for you soon ...

Things can only get better and all that :D
 
i'm sorry to hear about your loss, but a guy on another forum i use has just started a relationship where the other girl has a kid. i've used this as an example to show him what WILL happen. he's a bit of a weirdo, proposes after 3 dates etc.
 
So sorry to hear this. You must be feeling godawful. It's a horrible thing to happen but, as has been said, it may be a lucky escape. She obviously wasn't 'the one' and it would've been worse if the wedding had gone ahead and then she'd done this.
Small consolation I know.
Things will turn around soon and you'll meet somebody who will love and appreciate you and you'll live happily ever after :)
Chin up.
 
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