A Tale Of Caution!

Yeah, I know how you feel mate. Me and my girlfriend of 3 years broke up about 5 months ago and I still feel rubbish. It's horrible! I seem to of somehow of lost all my confidence recently as well.

As people say, try and keep yourself busy! It's the reason I brought my M as a present to myself! I hope it starts to get better soon.
 
whats the problem? sounds like you dodged a bullet with her. better now than five years down the line when you have a mortgage too and she takes the house

........ if it makes you feel any better, you can have mine
 
Better it happen now than a few years down the line, with a kid she most likely would had the house and most of your income, happened to a friend as social services will always favour the mother.

My line is never jump in too soon and only ever meet half way so the other person has just as much to lose :D

Tim.
 
lifes a bitch then you marry 1, sounds like you had a lucky escape

but being serious, life can be very hard and nobody can give you the answere, only time will help

what ever pain you are going through think to yourself there is somebody in a worse position than you
 
1 day somebody will write a book and on page 27 there will be the answere we are all looking for
 
Right, it's happened & as many have mentioned you've had a lucky escape. Few years dwn the line can assure you would have been far worse.

Deep breath, the sooner you put it behind you the sooner you'll get to where you need to be.

Chin up fella, life always knocks you, believe in yourself & you'll find your way... as they say, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger... & it will get better
 
Taz x said:
Jembo said:
what doesn't kill you makes you stronger...
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7 years on and i'm still a chuffin wreck but ye i'm getting stronger lol
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I'll give you the number of a chic I once knew from Blackpool, she'll nurse you back to health & drain your happy sacks dry. Least you'll go with a smile on your face
 
my only advice would be to never take her back as you will then be in a world of pain and never be able to trust her again
 
Jembo said:
Taz x said:
Jembo said:
what doesn't kill you makes you stronger...
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7 years on and i'm still a chuffin wreck but ye i'm getting stronger lol
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I'll give you the number of a chic I once knew from Blackpool, she'll nurse you back to health & drain your happy sacks dry. Least you'll go with a smile on your face
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If she is pretty I'm in lol!
 
Sorry about that OP, as others have said "a lucky escape for you" and NEVER take her back.

I'm never ceased to be amazed at some of the strange ladies out there, some of them with real bad attitudes (and the stunning ones are the worse), date for a month and they think they should be moving in, however, I like living on my own to much so I move on.
 
Kryton said:
Sorry about that OP, as others have said "a lucky escape for you" and NEVER take her back.
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Sorry to hear and hope things work out, am sure they will given time. It does sound like a lucky escape for you that it's happened pre-wedding if she was willing to end it that abruptly.
 
She was ugly anyway!

Sorry to hear. Take the job and get back in touch with your friends. The sting will go eventually.
 
gutted... but as others have said a lucky escape.

I was engaged to a girl in my early 20's, she was my world. She ended it randomly and inexplicably... i blamed myself and hated myself, which shifted to hating her over time.... took me a long time to get over it... but now looking back i believe i had a lucky escape too... and i am glad it turned out the way it did.

so chin up... and time does heel.
 
wow thanks everyone for the kind words! really trying to not let it bother me but its hard having to move back into a small room in your dads flat at 26 with no job because you left your job of 8 years to go live with her, stressed out looking for an income! the nights are worst when your on your own as well!
 
Sorry to hear your news, but just remember not all women behave like this - the majority of us would never dream of hurting someone in this way. You will find the right one - my husband waited and waited and then I came along :wink:
 
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