A racist incident, your thoughts....

Stark I think you did exactly the right thing. You only feel guilty about him being suspended because you're a decent chap.

But going to the police or suing like people have said to you is going a bit too far in my opinion.
 
Paradroid said:
Stark I think you did exactly the right thing. You only feel guilty about him being suspended because you're a decent chap.

But going to the police or suing like people have said to you is going a bit too far in my opinion.

I'm with him ^^........The thing is , I bet the perpetrator feels hes the victim here, these cretins dont take responsibility for their actions/insults etc.
 
Guy got what was coming to him, I think suspension etc is enough to make him think twice about it.
Wont stop him being racist though, sadly everybody is racist to some degree...fact of life.

My girlfriends indian and if someone was racist towards her I'd be most likely end up getting a criminal record

But at the same time I also hold a certain distaste for a certain selection of Asian men :fuelfire:
But thats to do with their culture and views...my girlfriend holds the same distaste
 
RubyBlueZ4MC said:
I was spat on and called paki by some boys in a car when I was walking home from school when I was about 12. What can you do..

Carry out a vasectomy if one of them pops into your surgery with a sore throat (make sure your wearing a smug grin)
 
The good old daily wail have an artical running at the mo. Although this is totally unmeasurable and the survey is a load of usual DM tripe it does contain a few stats that i would expect isn't too far of for the mentioned countries.

We're one of the most tollerant countries in the world according to this ' ' survey ' '

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2325502/Map-shows-worlds-racist-countries-answers-surprise-you.html
 
The guy was sacked yesterday. Thinking about it, if I did that at work it would be gross misconduct and I'd be sacked too
 
Swiftly said:
The benefit we have in Scotland is that Police Officers patrol in pairs, so two witnesses required under Scots law to be able to charge, arrest or report direct to the Procurator Fiscal.

Might just be me but that in itself is a bit worrying, as from what I hear the boys in blue stick together. Allowing one police officer to be witness for another is just crying out for abuse.
 
sp3ctre said:
Swiftly said:
The benefit we have in Scotland is that Police Officers patrol in pairs, so two witnesses required under Scots law to be able to charge, arrest or report direct to the Procurator Fiscal.

Might just be me but that in itself is a bit worrying, as from what I hear the boys in blue stick together. Allowing one police officer to be witness for another is just crying out for abuse.

But offisher, Shurely shome mishtake (best Sean Connery voice)
 
Not the best result unless he has previous.

Sacking him leaves him with a grudge and it won't be his boss on the receiving end. :headbang:
To certain extent we have to tolerate intolerance.

Though I think you did exactly the right thing stark. :thumbsup:
I think his company were probably acting in their best interest too.

It is a pity that idiots get themselves into trouble. :(
 
I think what you've done so far is spot on, and personally i'd leave it there.

Should of said "i'm indian you stupid f%ck" :D

EDIT: i seem to have missed pages 2-5 when writing my response :D hah.
 
Believe me, I was far more restrained than I normally am, but working in the area, leaves me just as vulnerable. I am normally not that polite...
 
I wonder if there would be the same outcome if a non-white person called someone a white c*nt... probably not.

The guy regardless of being racist or not though sounds like a d*ck.
 
peddy said:
I wonder if there would be the same outcome if a non-white person called someone a white c*nt... probably not.

The guy regardless of being racist or not though sounds like a d*ck.

Happened to me. I just laughed at him.

Sounds like the company has done the right thing.... Though not without a healthy dose of self-interest driving them, as I guess their contracts will be taken out of suspension too. It's not nice that someone has lost their job, but the chap should've thought of that before saying what he did. Maybe he'll have learned a lesson.

Jembo's advice stands though Stark, because if he's a union member then he could take it to a tribunal...
 
You went with the correct course of action that's for sure, the company will be making him pay big time. Such a shame there are people this single minded out there.
 
I've spent a lifetime being called such things. I grew up in a part of London where the NF (National Front to you youngsters) had their headquarters, and I used t get beat up pretty much every other day. I almost started believing that Paki was my middle name!! :rofl: but I'm not a victim, far from it, and perhaps my own views are not exactly holy either. My views on immigration are very severe. But regardless of what we think in our heads, you just don't say such things.

Jonnyfive has just bought a Maserati, which reinforces the fact that his cock is only 1 inch long, but I wouldn't dream of telling him that to his face!!!! :evil:
 
Stark said:
Just round the corner from where you live Peddy....my mum lives on the Tudor estate round the corner.
Oh I looooove those flats! I'd love to live in one of them!!
 
Sorry, but this is a sad outcome in my opinion.

You were on your way to your mums.....so not on work duty. He was racist to you, but as not on work duty, it was a totally "personal" thing.

You confronted him there and then. This was correct.

You reported him to his company. This was also reasonable.

But you also reported it to your highways department.....was that via a work contact you have?

Being at work or on personal time is irrelevant to the act that took place, cos to him, you were just another driver, but had you been a member of the public without your inside knowledge of the departments involved, would you have left it at just the talk to him?

Seems to me you were very upset and wanted revenge....which is understandable, but are you happy he has lost his job?

I can see why he has....his company needed to make an example out of him in order to get the work back, and so in that respect it is tough sh*t for him, but come on, sticks and stones etc - he called you a name and now has lost his job! Like I said before, had it been me driving, he would've probably called me a fat c*nt.....so I don't think it was really racially motivated, but because everyone is so sh*t scared of being labelled racist, his company has acted strongly.

True, he should've thought of that before he said it...I work for and organsiation that has a strict equality policy and I'd be in the sh*t also, but losing his job seems to severe over just this incident.

However, we don't know the full facts....he might have had complaints before etc (so hasn't learnt his lesson etc....and therefore does deserve this) but at the same time, this might be a 1st incident.

If it happened to me, sure, I'd want action taken, partly out of revenge, but also to educate him, but not to lose his job. Again though, as I said before, I have different views, so perhaps you see it more strongly, which is your view, to which you are entitled.

Now he has lost his job, lets hope he does learn from it! He'll probably have plenty of time to reflect.
 
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