Banger, it's just NJ. This whole state is like that. Comcast, Car Dealerships, Home Builders, Realtors, Contractors, even the waitresses at Hooters are worthless (as waitresses, anyway)... they all have NO sense of customer service!!! I got my 2003 Z4 at DeSimone and was so disgusted at their lack of customer service during my year of owning that car that I went out to Allentown, PA when I traded it in for my 2008 3.0si.
I've enjoyed the REAL BMW service in San Antonio, Dallas, St Louis, Grand Rapids MI, and now in Allentown PA. If this is your first BMW experience, please do not think that it is normal - it's not.