when dating goes.... BAD!!! LOL
- Thread starter Beedub
- Start date
no thanks
Have no problem with younger women, totally depends on the woman. In my prime (some time again now) I dated women around my age and slightly older. When I reached my late 20's I met my wife who is 5 years younger, and we've been married over 20 years. Only becomes an issue when you reminisce about music from the 80's 
@Beedub plenty of time mate, I wasn't married until I was 27
@Beedub plenty of time mate, I wasn't married until I was 27
Carol M said:Beedub said:
I'm not even joking, you should date older women. it's the future!
this girl im dating is alittle older, i look forward to seeing when she transforms into the devil... lol!!! im just turned 27 shes 31, i can definitely see the pluses...... i look forward to see what the "older" women has over the younger ladies, but from my experience the younger girls now offer ZERO that interests me, ZERO, dont get me wrong their is exceptions to the rules but mostly we dont seem to gel nowdays.
Wondermike said:Has Woots hacked your accountKeithJ said:Plus they are more grateful as they fear they are going to be left on the shelf...
tht comment made me laugh, but risk A but was funny!!! lol..... this is the first time ive dated someone older than me really so im really interested to see where it goes, shes got a decent job, own place and her own money so its nice to meet someone already settled and seems to know what she wants..... The only thing im seeing is she seems alittle pushy in terms of what she wants, when she wants it ect ect.... im not interested in some serious relationship right now and really just want to date, go out, have fun and just enjoy life after a long year and a half.... so im hoping she doesnt want to just meet somebody and instantly become serious, as from what ive SEEN, may be wrong, the older women seems to know what she wants and not want to deviate from that....
markeg said:Have no problem with younger women, totally depends on the woman. In my prime (some time again now) I dated women around my age and slightly older. When I reached my late 20's I met my wife who is 5 years younger, and we've been married over 20 years. Only becomes an issue when you reminisce about music from the 80's
@Beedub plenty of time mate, I wasn't married until I was 27
yeah i agree this last 1.5 years ive gone fom being a misery to completely happy on my own, house to myself, Tv to myself, go out and do what i want..... ive really learned to love my own company as well which i think is a great point to be @ and im pretty certain it will take someone pretty cool to make me want to drop that..... married @ 27 ??? holy crap that scares the crap out of me!!! i dont ever want to be married i dont think.... i would hate to risk my moms/my hard work if something went wrong, im not sure have it all works in marriage but i believe the other side is entitled to half of whatever you own????
this subject seems to get many comments, but from what im seeing their are more benefits to dating the older woman, im sure they will have their pit falls but imo i cansee many benefits....
i think o personally wouldn't go further than 34-35..... at first i wasnt to sure about going to 31 but realised thats a minor age gap and we'd probably share alot in common....which we do, were on date number 2 next friday, not coming friday as shes on holiday till sunday, so im guna take her into town, hit a nice food place, get cocktails, get drunk, try and get a kiss or 2!!
After that im going to try something different and organise a go kart date!!! lol, or even something mad like a sky dive!!!
i think o personally wouldn't go further than 34-35..... at first i wasnt to sure about going to 31 but realised thats a minor age gap and we'd probably share alot in common....which we do, were on date number 2 next friday, not coming friday as shes on holiday till sunday, so im guna take her into town, hit a nice food place, get cocktails, get drunk, try and get a kiss or 2!!
After that im going to try something different and organise a go kart date!!! lol, or even something mad like a sky dive!!!
Now if I was being particularly mean today I would say that's because your shelf is so high, but I'm not so I won't.KeithJ said:Carol M said:Do I recall you saying you were single? I can see why.KeithJ said:Plus they are more grateful as they fear they are going to be left on the shelf...
Oh Sorry Carol, didn't see you there babe
There was some "scientific" theory that said the ideal age of a woman is half the man's age plus 7yrs. Personally, I reckon this theory was espoused by some middle aged chap fixating on a younger girl!
So you 40yr olds are looking for 27yr olds. Who's with me!?! *ducks*
So you 40yr olds are looking for 27yr olds. Who's with me!?! *ducks*
I've dated both younger and much older women than myself and to be honest the scales are balanced more towards the older.
They seem to be:
More confident.
More solvent (money not glue!)
More experiecned in what life throws at them.
Not as clingy
However the majority have what I describe as 'baggage'. . (different to saggage!)
i.e kids, ex husbands etc,etc.
I agree with the comments that a large majority of younger women have very little in the way of anything to offer nowadays, in most aspects.
That said my gf is 13yrs younger than me and we've been together 7yrs (no smutty comments please )
But the good old days of living on my own are sorely missed @ times!
Good luck to anyone playing the dating game these days.
They seem to be:
More confident.
More solvent (money not glue!)
More experiecned in what life throws at them.
Not as clingy
However the majority have what I describe as 'baggage'. . (different to saggage!)
i.e kids, ex husbands etc,etc.
I agree with the comments that a large majority of younger women have very little in the way of anything to offer nowadays, in most aspects.
That said my gf is 13yrs younger than me and we've been together 7yrs (no smutty comments please
)But the good old days of living on my own are sorely missed @ times!
Good luck to anyone playing the dating game these days.
Taz x said:
Where did that "scientific theory" come from?? I don't think I'd have much in common with the average 56 year old.
A
Anonymous
Guest
My experience is if they don't laugh when they see you naked then they are a keeper. :?