What would you do?

Carol M said:
You say it's six months since the split? Is there any chance of a reconciliation? Is that why that's a weight holding you down?
If not and there's no way you're getting back together then why not go?
It doesn't have to be forever does it? If you don't like it you can always come back.
It's a scary thing to move abroad I should imagine but it will only seem new for a few weeks and you will settle in quite quickly.
On the other hand if your gut is saying no and you can't work out why exactly, you need to think why that is and work through the reasons you come up with.
Write the pro's and con's on a piece of paper side by side, that'll help you weigh it up.

Good luck either way.
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I think I hope we get back together, but realistically I'm not sure if it would happen. I guess I'm hoping it will, but there are no signs to suggest it at the moment!

I'm nearly at the stage of having a bash at it, I spent some of last week sorting my CV out to sent to anyone one else.

Everyone I have spoken to has said the same thing, do it!

I have been all over the place the last few months, but might be just what I need!
 
mr.nic said:
What's the worst that can happen? If you hate it, come home. If it's good, enjoy it for a while.

Remember, you only get one life - this is not a dress rehearsal...
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Yes, I think I always worry things are forever, but its only a flight back at the end of the day!
 
It's so difficult to get a job out there, that to have an offer out in front of you is a once in a lifetime thing. Go for it!
 
Carol M said:
Adamski said:
Citation 650, :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :rofl: :rofl:

All the blokes focus on the trip to Auzzie, the woman asks about the relationship :P :poke: :lol:

*sorry Carol* :wink:
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:lol: but my questions are designed to make him think.
I'm female, it's my job.
:rofl:
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Yes dear and you do it very well.
 
Go with your gut instinct. If you are not convinced don't do it. It's not like you can't ever in the future. I feel you are more going by what others think is best than what you feel.
 
I'd go if I were you, put it down to experience if you decide it's not for you when you're there, I'd have loved an opportunity like that at your age :thumbsup:
 
- 26
- Single
- Bored in job and miserable in life
- Offer of a job in Australia.....a place that the world at large generally accepts as a AMAZING place to live.
- Offer of loads of cash.
- Offer of 4 weeks of every 8 to explore oz using the vast sack of cash.
- Drives a Z4 in the uk which with careful planning could be burnt out so you don't have to come back to the hateful spine jangling rattle can if and when you come back.

I have to ask but have you consulted your care worker about this because I can only assume you are an actual mentol who needs looking after for not quite literally tearing the arm off the person offering you the job, serving the time in prison for doing so and then taking the opportunity up.

Mate go and go now otherwise you will regret it for the remainder of your miserable days that you will eek out in this flooded shithole of a piss wet through, dole scrounging, scrotters filled, abscess of a country.

Worst comes to the worst we'll have you back.........no benefits when you get back though.......not enough NI Paid.
 
Re the ex


It's been 6 months.......she's been knobbed to shinola and back........probably by your mate........maybe even your brother and or dad.

Get over it.....go to Oz and find a new chick.
 
Sell your Zed. Go. if you want to come back its no big deal. I did 18 months in Qld. Decided not to stay, but going for 18 months was excellent. Whatever happens you won't regret the experience.

It us expensive though. Forget BMW. Get yourself a V8 holden or Ford fir a year!

If you don't go you will always regret it. If you do go and don't like it, you will just regret it for a few months at worst!
 
Thanks for your thoughts. All well received.

I think I will speak to the company and see what they say. I will keep you informed.

I would need to decide what to do with the zed. I have only had it about 2 months! Typical!!!
 
Now that everyone else has helped you see the light, when do you start? If all goes to plan, I'm moving to Oz in January so I'll meet you on the beach for a beer :thumbsup:
 
Well, I have 3 month notice period at my current job, so wouldn't be until after Xmas at the earliest. Where are you moving? What you doing with your cars?
 
I gave my notice today, so I should be in Sydney from January as long as my visa and registration with the Oz medical board come through in time.
My parents have just bought a new house with a stupidly large garage so my Westfield and my ///M will be on axle stands safely under cover. If I can't sell my 320d for a reasonable amount before I go, that'll join them until my parents can sell it on my behalf.

It takes a fair bit of planning if you want to go, but you'll find it much easier if you're under 30 and not trying to take a family with you. I would seriously consider it. If you get fed up with sunshine and barbies on the beach, you can always come home or move on to the next adventure...
 
RubyBlueZ4MC said:
Go with your gut instinct. If you are not convinced don't do it. It's not like you can't ever in the future. I feel you are more going by what others think is best than what you feel.
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i agree with this... Go with your gut... If it doesn't feel right dont do it.

But never regret decisions you made, regret those you didnt!




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