Thank for the heads up guys.
Well ive had a while now to sit and mull things over and ive decided that the best thing I can do is try to put it out of my mind and wait for collection and when I do collect It just go over it thoroughly even though I'm hoping It hasnt been damaged and the dealer has categorically stated in writing It hasn't been damaged.
Also, ive contacted them about the fuel as you've all been correct that it was included in my original invoice so waiting to see what they come back with.
Also, next week when I am about I will be down at heathrow until 5pm and they close at 6 but the dealer has said that he will stay late and wait for me to arrive to allow me to collect my car when it arrives.
Thankfully Im part exchanging my current car so im not carless at the moment.
One kick in the nads was that Id already changed my insurance over so I had to change it back. The dealer said they would cover the cost of this but I have to say Sheila's wheels have been fantastic. I've told them all about the situation and as a goodwill gesture for me having a bad day they've wavered all admin fees surrounding this situation for the 3 times I've had to adjust my insurance (from old car to new, back to old, then back to new when it arrives). I can't speak highly enough about them.
I'm still absolutely gutted especially as I planned a whole bank holiday weekend of detailing and protecting the car but there Ya go! Nothing I can do now apart from wait

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