I had the exact same quandary when I got my US-spec lights like yours; I tried without the french fry for a week or two but it just looked too odd to me. I actually like the way it breaks up red of the unit, so ended up refitting mine. Titan silver too!
Fair enough, each to thier own. I think no paint then looks more asgressive (as you put it :? ) , though the silver looks more sophisticated. depending on which group you belong to.
Car looks smick either way mate.