Try 0.5 less rear camber, if the settings are as per 3.0i
Lots of lateral thrusting comes from that, along with lots more neg camber under bump. All in that is what makes the back end move around on bumpy roads. Evo were just wrong, as is often the case. The kinematics are just very safe and setup isn't ideal for lots of uk roads.
Rft> fk452 made me happy with mine, but only with 31/33psi f/r, so maybe look at pressures?
I'm not sure why your car is unstable, have you driven any other Si's to get a feel? The Si I drove seemed very good to be honest. The z4 is lively, it feels quite unstable, but they DO track solid without rft despite not feeling like it... Hmmmm
Anywhere with Hunter alignment are worth looking at. Tyre pressures worth considering, and make sure car is set up with dummy load. Try get rear camber at least u can within oe spec if u don't fancy a big change. -2.3 ish iirc
Cheers
Dave