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Aebous

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Unlike 99% of my other posts i'll keep this one simple

How do you tell when your with "the one"?







Does the fact i'm asking mean I don't know?
Based on that comment does this mean i'm using her?
s**t i'm so conflicted
 
Hell I am conflicted. I mean i'm crazy about the girl (she has good morals so not just a case of love at first pipe cleaning) but i guess i'm trying to figure out why a part of me is worried about moving the relationship along past bf/gf. I can'gt post on twitter now as I put that on myspace (stupid me) so she now see's my thoughts with that program. I so need to just lay everything out for her. Allright, i'm out before i really make a fool of myself.
 
You have quite the conundrum…. :headbang:

I know because I have been married and divorced 2 times and both time I thought this this was "the one"... :(
 
Mattt said:
Get drunk and tell her how you feel. Guaranteed winner.
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Be absolutely sober and tell you how you feel, you'll never regret it and you'll remember all that happened. She will also believe you and believe in you, which is an important element, don't you think?
 
Date her for a year or so then move in together for a year and then make up your mind. While dating you only see what you are being shown. FWIW. :wink:
 
Hey Aeb. Don't fret it. And don't rush it. The answer to your question is more complex than anthing any of us could write here. Talk to your family about it, they know you best. And, again, don't rush it. If she's "the one" it'll eventually come to light, and if she isn't that will also eventually become apparent. Until then, enjoy what you have with her, whatever that is, if you enjoy it then it's all good. :thumbsup:
 
2dogs said:
in my life "The one" turned out to be a number two :x
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What is a number two? In my sick world that is slang for a bowel movement, taking a dump, pooping, ect...
 
flyboyaj said:
Hey Aeb. Don't fret it. And don't rush it. The answer to your question is more complex than anthing any of us could write here. Talk to your family about it, they know you best. And, again, don't rush it. If she's "the one" it'll eventually come to light, and if she isn't that will also eventually become apparent. Until then, enjoy what you have with her, whatever that is, if you enjoy it then it's all good. :thumbsup:
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just keep having fun and moving forward. unless you folks are talking about marriage in the near future or having kids... then there really isnt a need to move forward past gf/bf (IMO). all these things happen when they are least expected and those are the best kinds of relationships, anyways.
 
Wow! Another real deep and meaningful post..

IMHO if you don't know, then hang on in there until you do know - one way or the other. You're both young, there's no clock ticking, so chill out, and enjoy each other's company.

Don't rush it and don't hold any deep and meaningful discussions with her, you might scare her off!

I absolutely guarantee that if "she's the one" for you and "you are the one for her" then you will both come to realise it eventually.

I feel for you, you sound like you're trying to do the right thing........

Good luck
 
20ducks said:
Aebous, we are going to have the final word on if she is "the one":
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Lol, tanks fellas. Ya'll do help believe it or not. Hmm a pic....eventually i will get one of her on the car....
I did take her around red rock scenic loop fairly fast....she's tough, didn't scream once, not even a complaint or gasp. I did notice her holding on to the door handle rather tightly :D

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You’re brave posting a picture on this forum! It must be love :sweetheart:
I would edit (eventually i will get one of her on the car) to “in the car”
Before Phil and ducks start posting :rofl:
 
I know, what can I say, I like her alot. Apparently we are bragging to everyone we know that we are seeing each other. Must be something there.
 
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