Under normal circumstances / conditions it'll be down to usage. This is due to the current drawn by the hydraulic pump motor and arching between the contacts inside the relay. Over time this arching can create pitting of the contacts, and under extreme cases the contacts can weld together. If this happens the controlling circuit won't be able to switch off the pump motor, no matter what you do, and then the pump will run continuously, eventually burning the pump motor out. Then you're talking big ££$$€€.
But how do we know these contacts are starting to go bad within the relay housing? Well you could take the relay cover off (carefully) and give the contacts a good inspection (having disconnected battery negative lead first, and then removed the relay). You could clean the contacts if required , but TBH if it's starting to pit that much I'd bin them and get new ones (BTW NEVER buy used ones, you never know the condition!).