Too much praise...Thanks to you all.
I have to admit that as I have passed into the "Golden" years and the longest part of my life is behind me, I am shocked to find I am losing friends who took far better care of themselves than I. My brother likes to remind folks that he has treated his body like a temple, while I have treated mine like an amusement park - and there is more truth than humor in that! I am convinced much of who gets to stay at the party is shear luck, but I am humbled enough with the occasional loss of someone dear that I try to be there for those I hear are dancing with the devil whenever I can. All to often the end is sudden and we never get the chance to say goodbye; progressive illnesses seem a brutal alternative, but they do allow the opportunity to spend time with people who you care about. It is a real gift and allows for some wonderful moments of serious connection with people who may have helped you become the person you are. Its in keeping with my belief that you get no more than you give, but I often fear I get more from these visits than the friend does.
Enough of this! I have a serious question for another post that maybe you all can help with... wheels and tires.....
I have to admit that as I have passed into the "Golden" years and the longest part of my life is behind me, I am shocked to find I am losing friends who took far better care of themselves than I. My brother likes to remind folks that he has treated his body like a temple, while I have treated mine like an amusement park - and there is more truth than humor in that! I am convinced much of who gets to stay at the party is shear luck, but I am humbled enough with the occasional loss of someone dear that I try to be there for those I hear are dancing with the devil whenever I can. All to often the end is sudden and we never get the chance to say goodbye; progressive illnesses seem a brutal alternative, but they do allow the opportunity to spend time with people who you care about. It is a real gift and allows for some wonderful moments of serious connection with people who may have helped you become the person you are. Its in keeping with my belief that you get no more than you give, but I often fear I get more from these visits than the friend does.
Enough of this! I have a serious question for another post that maybe you all can help with... wheels and tires.....