Made The Biggest Mistake Of My Life!

Nova2k7

Senior member
 Halifax - West Yorkshire
so currently have an add on Gumtree,

Got a txt from a a bloke called Bob Wright saying how he had tried to call me and could i email him back! i then got an email from Gumtree asking me to log in and view my message.

at this point i made the biggest mistake ever and im sure you can all guess what it was.

i gave the fucker EVERYTHING! name, address, phone, all my bank info.

god knows why, i must have been on auto pilot. called Fraud UK, the bank and Experian about my report! but now im just waiting for some scum bag to clone me!

Anyone else had this experience?
 
You emailed Bob all those details?

Not good.

Hope all is well!
 
Oh my god you didn't? :cry: :cry:

No use saying what most people are going to say, you already know.

What I will say is I hope it's caught in time and everything gets changed before 'Bob' gets his hands on any of it.
Really sad for you :(
 
Ah now I had a text saying Bob couldn't get through to me on phone, so could I send him email. I did, in response I got same email as you, BUT as soon as I had logged on realised that it was a scam due to info it was asking for ( which I didn't fill in ), and logged straight onto my real account and changed the password. I then used life chat to speak to Gumtree and she said that was all I needed to do. They are aware of the problem and she asked straight away if email had come from Bob.
 
I wouldnt worry too much about it, he cant do much with your bank details (no passwords etc given to him).

Inform your bank so they can keep an eye on your account and all should be fine.

Ash
 
Don't beat yourselve up, think about it anopther way, it could have been far worse, you could have ben mugged and seriously injured or burgled and lost all that info from your wallet/phone etc plus door keys. It was a silly mistake but at least you are in one piece and on the defensive now. I do hope all gets sorted out ASAP
 
Hats off to you for having the nuts to admit it

Everyone has done something in their life and then thought, why? It will all work out in the end.
 
If one bank statement has been stolen, that info would have been available as well.

Even worse, one of those pre-filled in Amex cards things which have everything on there, including your phone, address etc.
 
I've got a friend called Bob,would it make you feel any better if I went around to his house and gave him a slap :evil:
 
Done the same thing at Christmas when I got an email from ''paypal'' saying Skype had charged me 40 quid for a subscription.

Logged in from the link in the email. Amateur mistake.

Knew straight away i had messed up so quickly changed my password and security questions and phoned paypal to get rid of my linked cards.

Fortunately I was quick enough and didn't lose anything.
 
These scammers are super clever, one has to be very savvy these days... A lesson to all...

My friend gets calls from India saying her pc has an IT issue (scam) She has had around 4 of these calls, the last one she managed to keep them on the phone saying "just trying that log in tell me again acting dumb etc" whilst actually cooking, pc was off... In the end they were on the phone for over 2 hours to her whilst she prepared, cooked and dished up a Sunday roast.... Then she told them and hung up! hahahahaha
 
Best practice advice is to NEVER conduct any business via internet UNLESS you instigate it YOURSELF. There are too many scams around to trust anything, unless you are completely in charge.

Sometimes we do lose focus and only think afterwards. I'm sure you will be OK as you haven't given out any passwords but be sure to advise your card provider and bank etc. as you seem to have done.

Stating the obvious, but nevertheless something that does catch many people out. Never click on any link in an email. No reputable institution will ever require you to do so. Banks, PAYPAL, Ebay - all of those will, if there is an issue, advise you to logon to your account independently i.e. not through the email or text. My mum's sage telephone advice was "If it's that important they will call again".

I would however advise you change your email address fairly quickly. This can be a real pain as we tend to forget how many daily things rely on it. Banking, Ebay, Amazon, cards, etc....

There are good reasons for doing so. Too many to detail here but possession of your email and name etc. can lead to severe annoyance and inconvenience and possibly a blocked account anyway, which if you can't restore it can be real bad news.

For example it can be used as a spoofed From address and used as a spam generator. Last year for example my retired school principal who organises regular coffee mornings but insists in lumping all the recipients for his emails in the TO address line for his emails instead of BCC had major issues. Multiple recipients received a very convincing email "from him" to say he had been mugged in the Phillipines and needed £2500 to get home etc...Many of the recipients are quite elderly and inexperienced and were upset and tempted to help. Fortunately I managed to email them all and told them to disregard it.

I also had my own email account compromised last year and blocked when someone used my account address to generate large quantities of spam. Probably my address was gleaned along with many others by a virus harvesting from a contacts address book. I was fortunately able to restore the account and the problem was resolved but it doesn't always end that happily.

Your simplest way is to get another address and redirect your current one to it for now so you will not be immediately inconvenienced. You can then gradually but quickly work your way through your Bank, Ebay, Amazon, card etc. contacts (and of course Z4 forum !) and change to the new address. You can email your friends with your new address (BCC!) and advise to remove your old one. Shouldn't take that long and you will be a lot happier and feel more secure. Of course as soon as you have sorted everything remove your old account.

You should be OK. The bonus is you realised. Many don't.

Best wishes.
 
MartynF said:
These scammers are super clever, one has to be very savvy these days... A lesson to all...

My friend gets calls from India saying her pc has an IT issue (scam) She has had around 4 of these calls, the last one she managed to keep them on the phone saying "just trying that log in tell me again acting dumb etc" whilst actually cooking, pc was off... In the end they were on the phone for over 2 hours to her whilst she prepared, cooked and dished up a Sunday roast.... Then she told them and hung up! hahahahaha

I get these calls often. I used to rant at them calling them thieves and criminals etc but now I pretend to go along with it for a while just to waste their time.
 
dr_john said:
MartynF said:
These scammers are super clever, one has to be very savvy these days... A lesson to all...

My friend gets calls from India saying her pc has an IT issue (scam) She has had around 4 of these calls, the last one she managed to keep them on the phone saying "just trying that log in tell me again acting dumb etc" whilst actually cooking, pc was off... In the end they were on the phone for over 2 hours to her whilst she prepared, cooked and dished up a Sunday roast.... Then she told them and hung up! hahahahaha

I get these calls often. I used to rant at them calling them thieves and criminals etc but now I pretend to go along with it for a while just to waste their time.

See if you can cook a roast next time too???
 
I wouldn't worry about it from the details you have given there is little anyone can do with it. I've given bank details to past buyers on ebay, just don't give passwords lol.

Its surprising how easy it is to fall for what you think are innocent things.

I had a call from a woman recently from MBNA card fraud saying my visa card details had been compromised and that they were issueing a new card. She asked me to confirm my name, address, phone numbers and 1st and third letters of my password, she didn't ask for any pin numbers. Anyways I didn't think anything off it as she sounded genuine. It was only when I finsihed the call I thought sh*t what have I done. I had to go back in my mind what info I had given her and whether it would compromise me. Ended up ringing MBNA and luckily it was a genuine call but as said its so easy to fall for what you think is something genuine.

Tim.
 
hopz121 said:
I wouldnt worry too much about it, he cant do much with your bank details (no passwords etc given to him).

Inform your bank so they can keep an eye on your account and all should be fine.

Ash

Don,t you remember Clarkson publishing his bank details in a newspaper to prove they couldn,mt be used fraudulently ?
Only for some smartarse to set up a monthly charity donation on his behalf :D
This aint funny for Nova but the villains can do all sorts of things with the merest of information
 
TitanTim said:
I wouldn't worry about it from the details you have given there is little anyone can do with it. I've given bank details to past buyers on ebay, just don't give passwords lol.

Its surprising how easy it is to fall for what you think are innocent things.

I had a call from a woman recently from MBNA card fraud saying my visa card details had been compromised and that they were issueing a new card. She asked me to confirm my name, address, phone numbers and 1st and third letters of my password, she didn't ask for any pin numbers. Anyways I didn't think anything off it as she sounded genuine. It was only when I finsihed the call I thought sh*t what have I done. I had to go back in my mind what info I had given her and whether it would compromise me. Ended up ringing MBNA and luckily it was a genuine call but as said its so easy to fall for what you think is something genuine.

Tim.

I had the same thing from HSBC. I went ape s**t at them and told them they are encouraging people like my Dad to give out details over the phone. If they wanted me to deal with them on the phone they should have told me to call them back or pop to the nearest branch.
 
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