I think I can provide some value to this particular discussion. Settle in for story time

ldman:
As a petrolhead, someone who has driven hard both on and off the track, I always scoffed at autos, I saw them as slower, lazier, less involved and ultimately inferior to a "true" manual car and every car I owned was a manual. I even turned down a drive of a Skyline because it was an auto.
Fast forward and I am looking for a new car, Mk2 TT V6 or a E86 3.0si, I decided that I wanted the maximum possible spec with all the optional extras and that I wouldnt shift on that. I find the TT first and go see the car, it has the DCT box and ive heard they are fantastic so I gave it a chance, I hated every moment. I found the car to be changing gear far too often and when using the paddles it would "revert" to auto after 30seconds or so. I took the car back and walked away confident that I was right about auto cars, they are fkin garbage.
After another couple of months of searching I find a car, the E86, its close, well within budget and its got that full spec everything I'm after! I couldnt believe my luck and as I looked through the pictures my heart sank... its an auto
For a week or so I was back and forth onto the advert but every time the sight of that auto selector put me off. Eventually I decided to go see the car and drive it, could I live with an auto box if I got everything else I wanted.
I go see the car and its perfect in every way but that transmission, I openly told the owner of the garage that I expected to hate the car and not buy it because of its box but that it was everything I wanted besides that. So we go out on a dreary damp day for the test drive, initially it was just your usual auto, quick enough but somewhat lazy in the changes. I ask the guy about the box and its settings and he dutifully explains and tells me about the "manual" mode... Manual mode? Whut?! So into "manual" mode it goes, sport button is pressed and immediately its a different car. It revs all the way up to the top and doesnt second guess my gear choice, the only thing it does is save me from stalling on the way down, the changes are quick, much quicker than I would manage on a standard manual box and the car just pulls and pulls. I was grinning from ear to ear, the car was fantastic! No unpredictability in corners, no annoying double down shifts when driving "normally" it was for all intents and purposes a "manual" car but you use paddles instead of a stick.
We get back to the garage, I give the guy a deposit and the next day go and collect the car. That was 6 years ago, I still have the car, its the car I have owned the longest by some margin (I usually get bored after a couple of years and change). Even after 64k miles and 6 years It still makes me grin every time I drive it and I have been away with the car multiple times each year on runs with the forum, I am sure there are plenty who could testify to the cars quickness.
Do I miss a manual? .... honestly yes & no, having that direct control over the engine would allow me to squeeze more out of the car for the times when its being driven properly but those times are maybe 1% of the time, for the other 99% of the time the auto is comfortable, easy in traffic, not tiring when on and off and on and off the clutch. Needless to say my next car I wont have any reservations about looking at an auto, they are completely different to what I imagined and are far less boring/lazy etc than I assumed.
Ultimately its a personal preference and as such the best advice has already been given, go see the car, drive the car and make up your own damn mind

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