Woots & Blueflash said:
ahh you guys are so wise, goddamn you all!!
i know your right and yeah im not exactly in the position to throw away 40k on a car, i bloody wish, it was more of a "when im in tht position"
i think it may be a good idea to keep the zed for another year perhaps, then before the baby comes along but myself an m3 saloon or something....should be pretty cheap by then, and its a good compromise between fun and family-ness?
perhaps...
aaahhh joys of growning up hey!
I'd be inclined (in your situation) to keep the zed forever and buy a cheap runaround (rather than an M3) to transport the family. Live with it for a while once you have the baby and re-evaluate in a year or so once your finances are settled. I believe you will find that a lot of the money has to go on the baby, but if not then go for it.
Ok, this is a bad example, but we moved house and I was saving for an electric double garage door... saved and saved and when I has enough we got the bathroom re-done instead. The garage door seemed important at the time but priorities change. I still want to get it done, but can live without for the time being while I get my sh*t together. I think this may be a bit like your situation... you may find that while things are a little lean money-wise you could actually do with a cheap runaround and the zed... that's more than a lot of people with kids have
Anyway, despite some of your crazy posts I actually am pretty sure you know very well what you're doing and whatever happens you will make the right choice