What about instruments? Do they work?
If you turn the car off, key out, and flash the high beam stalk, it should turn on the 'follow me home' lights (they'll turn off automatically). When you do that, which lights come on? (Note - this can be programmed to do a custom subset of lights, but the headlights are usually included from the factory.
I am trying to rule out if the rotary part of the LCM is faulty, or the part which activates the lights, so trying two different ways of turning them on should help