Sounds like the refurbisher has screwed up and put a thick layer of powder coat somewhere. I'd had several sets done several times and never a single rim that didn't slot together.
You need to find the high spots and grind off until it sits perfectly. Anything like bashing the wheel centre in is just not good enough and will certainly damage the finish and likely lead to wheel wobble or even failure if the bolts are badly tensioned to force it to sit.
You need to find the high spots and grind off until it sits perfectly. Anything like bashing the wheel centre in is just not good enough and will certainly damage the finish and likely lead to wheel wobble or even failure if the bolts are badly tensioned to force it to sit.