The 35i I tried with 'normal' sport suspension was too hard for me. My 35iS with adaptive is far better ! Much softer in comfort and firm enough in sport with a lovely burble on over run.
Re mapping - mine is loosening up nicely now at 6,500 but I know how much quicker the 11 plate 35iS I had was at 30,000 !! It would run rings around my 13 plate one purely due to mileage. The thing with the 11 plate was it kept breaking ... thus I am more than happy with the performance of the newer car. The difference at 30K was very, very noticeable higher up the rev range. It felt genuinely rapid as opposed to just 'quick'. Another 25bhp would be amusing but I am not risking my warranty for that.
Re mapping - mine is loosening up nicely now at 6,500 but I know how much quicker the 11 plate 35iS I had was at 30,000 !! It would run rings around my 13 plate one purely due to mileage. The thing with the 11 plate was it kept breaking ... thus I am more than happy with the performance of the newer car. The difference at 30K was very, very noticeable higher up the rev range. It felt genuinely rapid as opposed to just 'quick'. Another 25bhp would be amusing but I am not risking my warranty for that.