So having had this to two more specialists given I've not been able to resolve it, they can't find anything wrong with the car at all. ... One of these specialists was way out of Manchester on a quiet, flat good quality road with hardly any traffic, a perfect environment to test this. So, I took the car at various throttle positions from 0 to 40+. Again and again. Not once did it show this 30mph wobble. Totally perplexed I remembered that on a recent trip to Birmingham NEC, when leaving the event, on a very smooth road, I could feel a bump bump bump from the back wheels.. and it suddenly clicked. Given the very short suspension travel, the dynamic suspension that goes almost solid when accelerating to reduce squat and the very very thin amount of rubber between the wheel and road, this is likely the tyres after all.
I think what's happening is that the tyres are getting warm/hot. Then I park up, the tyres cool, with a very slight flat spot where its parked. I then set off and get this thud thud thud or slight bump bump bump. Clearly this was happening with the RFTs just as it is now with the M PSS. The reason I came to this conclusion is because if when doing my first few miles I feel this bumping vs having the tyres fully warmed up on smooth roads and I can't feel it, the only thing that could possibly have changed, given all the mechanicals seem fine, is the tyre. It would also explain the slight squirming I feel from time to time which is the tyres, possibly one having rotated slightly differently to the other due to bumps now hitting their respective flat spots slightly apart.
I could be wrong... and it sounds a bit far fetched but this is probably it and there's not much I can do about it. I'm guessing most people won't or don't notice it because its so slight, but I know my car well and am a bit of a perfectionist. Its not something I've ever felt with another car because I've never had such low profile tyres. It would probably be much less pronounced on 18" and likely hardly felt at all on 17".
So I guess its something I'll have to live with....