I've always jacked up one axle entirely and secured on axle stands then back out the wheel bolts a few turns. With a 4x4 a bit of angle with 10mm thick rubber stuck to it & a 9lb club hammer get under the car & firmly tap near the rim on the angle each side of the wheel & keep on doing that until the wheel moves. This way if any damage does occur it's on an unseen part of the wheel.
You put the anti-seize on the hub flange NOT the disk bell face. The main force which is stopping the hub turn without the wheel is actually friction between the wheel & disc face. If you put anti-seize on that you lubricate that join and put more stress on the wheel bolts/studs. This can lead to sheered &/or deformed bolts/studs. There is also a problem where wheel manufactures remove to much metal from the hub face of the wheel. This results in a much higher stress on the wheel fitting hardware & associated issues.
I've heard many people use copper, is it worth using aluminium? Reason being that the wheel is aluminium itself? Therefore they are like-like metals? Avoids any resistance/corrosion (even though I know copper is a relatively noble and therefore stable element)? Can't make up my mind on whether to use copper or not. Most of my research states that people use it just fine on wheel and hub surfaces, although some places state that you shouldn't because they are dissimilar metals. Hardly anything out there for an alternative greaser but thought aluminium seemed logical because the alloy itself is made of it?
And while we're at it, should we grease up the bolts? Many sites I've looked at say it messes with torque settings.
Advise, experience and even (dare I say it) criticisms welcome!