Ewazix said:
You have the data, you just need to use a multimeter to check continuity of the outputs when they are switched.
basic video https://youtu.be/ieyr63wDqG0
Sure, but how do you do that when the relay is soldered onto the board without potentially damaging the other more delicate circuitry? (rhetorical Q. You can't unless you have a full schematic of the GM5 module to figure it out - which assumes you know what you are doing to begin with)
You would have to leave it plugged in to the car (unless you've built a test harness) and somehow get a multimeter onto the right solder joints while the car is being locked/unlocked.
As you say, cheaper to simply send it off just in case - the relays will likely fail at some point anyway - or alternatively use the Chipquik solution that worked for me if you know what you are doing with a soldering iron.