We set the date and deposits were paid for the 'big wedding'! So a manned up and sold the Z4 to pay for some of it. It went last night.
Gutted to say the least - however I will be back next year with an //M Coupe [the other half agreed ] so I can live a year without having a Z4 for weekends - especially since I the winter is coming.
[Oh and I was allowed £1.5k to buy a mountain bike! hehe