anger rant: angry/annoyed over nothing called for?

[Xiaxio]

Sorry if I come off as an ass for this thread or you don't care.

Over the years I have realized I tend to get annoyed and angry over anything and everything, regardless of how small it is or uncalled for it may be. Here are a few examples:

Mother being nice to me and asking me when I get home from work if want dinner. I just get this deep hatred and anger were I want to say "shut the hell up and stop being so nice!"

If something sad happens regardless how relevant the situation is to me I become apathetic towards the situation and become annoyed or angry at the fact that this persons sadness/lose has effected my life when I don't even care.

When somebody tries to socialize with me. Im extremely antisocial and in all honestly just hate everyone from the start until we get to know eachother.

I become angry and frustrated if someone is weaker than me with something like reading something or comprehensive skills.

I'm annoyed and angry by loud people, children, talking, questions, stupidity, repetitive things, large crowds, the way some people speak, overly nice/friendly people, the way somebody looks, people looking in my direction, show offs,

The list goes on. I'm not saying I'm annoyed by the usual things like somebody cutting me off on the road, my issue I guess I'm asking about is is it normal to be angry and or annoyed by things that shouldn't be an issue?
I'd imagine if you were asked if you would like dinner after a long day at work most people would think:
"wow. She's sweet. That makes me happy"
But for some odd reason for my thoughts it would be:
"Ugh. Shut up. You p*ss me off and are annoying me. I want the food, sure, but you make me angry with just your presence."

For the record, I have never acted out my anger in any of these instances or let them effect me. I'm honestly just curious if this is a normal thing?

I even annoy and become angry with myself. It even happened while writing all of this. I wanted to bash my skull in because I couldn't remember anymore examples :headbang:

The anger with these small things isn't just a simple pet peeve. It's bad to the point my nose twitches along with my eyes and I clench my first into a ball and grind my teeth out of anger and frustration with the situation.

I'm honestly not trying to come off badly in this post. I'm just posting how I honestly feel. I have never in my life let this stuff slip out and said anything to somebody :wink:
So.. do you get annoyed over things that shouldn't be an issue?

 

[gov]

From your profile I see you're only 19 - or you were when you joined - this I would guess is a lot to do with how you feel at the moment - it's just a trait of your personality - as you recognise this feeling of anger you are unlikely to act on it and as you grow older your attitude on life will change . When I was your age I was very short tempered and intolerant but as I matured I grew more patient - my mood swings lessened and I accepted life for what it is and achieved peace within myself .

I wouldn't worry mate - you'll be fine

 

[Smartbear]

From your profile I see you're only 19 - or you were when you joined - this I would guess is a lot to do with how you feel at the moment - it's just a trait of your personality - as you recognise this feeling of anger you are unlikely to act on it and as you grow older your attitude on life will change . When I was your age I was very short tempered and intolerant but as I matured I grew more patient - my mood swings lessened and I accepted life for what it is and achieved peace within myself .

I wouldn't worry mate - you'll be fine

Either this ^^ or you're going to get terrible ulcers :wink:
Rob

 

[Angie4m]

Maybe an age thing but didn't you once post up about smoking the green stuff before? If so if you still use it, this may be where some of the anger comes from. They do believe it can have an effect on some peoples mental health.

Getting annoyed over the slightest little thing or your mother being nice all the time is not normal for most people.

Maybe lots of other factors like as above or stress. You possibly want to address the issues you have and try and find a way to be less angry because although you don't lash out now, there is nothing to say you won't and land yourself in big trouble and/or be full of regret over not doing something sooner.

 

[Taz]

you need to w*nk more

 

[si-forks]

Hi I'm Si's wife
I work with young people and adults for a living

What you have written sounds like a long standing problem which will not go away quickly, and by sharing this you realise you want to change things.
If you were working with me I would advise to go to your GP and ask for CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy )this can be very successful in all aspects of stress management in our day to day life's
This isn't anything to be worried about and affects thousands of people in the UK every day

 

[metal licker]

you need to w*nk more

:rofl:

 

[teamemmenracing]

right .......... I am only answering this because I have seen it before and know where it can go.

I stood with an old friend looking at at neighbour over the wll one day and the friend made the comments, why is he so friendly, whats the point ...... etc etc etc .........

Its a condition that you need to talk to a doctor about or at least spend some time on Google.

 

[Jasey]

Get off the x-box and get out more

 

[rossonr]

It's a good thing you recognise this behaviour in yourself and felt comfortable expressing vocally/ written. I would agree that professional help is the best way forward.

 

[mr.tourette]

sounds like you're suffering from depression to me

 

[85genius]

Maybe an age thing but didn't you once post up about smoking the green stuff before? If so if you still use it, this may be where some of the anger comes from. They do believe it can have an effect on some peoples mental health.

This could be the answer! I used to smoke every day and thought it chilled me out, it wasn't until I stopped that I realised it actually made me more stressed as soon as the effect wore off and actually getting stoned was just bringing me back to a normal level... Try packing it in could do wonders for your mood and general happiness

 

[jamesbond]

Hello

Well a long shot to the original OP post .. I have been like this a few years back, and unfortunately and somewhat embarrassingly for me this forum took the brunt of this condition in some previous posts.

My friends nickname for me was Mr Hyde ! wonder why ?

Anyway I had Graves disease that can go undiagnosed in the early stages and can take a few years to rage up .. for me when they tested my TSH / T3 / T4 they where off the scale above a hundred which was life threatening .. all this 7 years later finally I am at peace with myself and in a good place .. only recently I had a operation to remove my thyroid gland and the medication dosage is just right.

So get your thyroid checked .. it's just a blood test at least you would know either way as the symptoms are very similar and yes I went on a depression course with the NHS that helped ..... My poor wife

 

[Angie4m]

Maybe an age thing but didn't you once post up about smoking the green stuff before? If so if you still use it, this may be where some of the anger comes from. They do believe it can have an effect on some peoples mental health.

This could be the answer! I used to smoke every day and thought it chilled me out, it wasn't until I stopped that I realised it actually made me more stressed as soon as the effect wore off and actually getting stoned was just bringing me back to a normal level... Try packing it in could do wonders for your mood and general happiness

IIRC he was/is a daily user sighting that he only used it because it was the only thing that would help him sleep and that his doctors wouldn't prescribe anything to help.

It could be a coincidence but it probably is having an effect if still being used.

 

[mr wilks]

I would say take a long look in the mirror & have a word with "yourself "
Read back what you wrote OP then imagine for one moment meeting yourself :wink:

 

[Donnieronnie]

You need to get professional help mate, that's not normal at all

You sound like a high school shooter before he goes on a rampage

Don't for one second think your behaviour is normal or part of adolescence ...... It's not..... You have a huge mental health problem and it needs dealing with

Wow, your poor mum !!

 

[skelters]

Here's some counselling for you.

Nobody gives a f**k about you or anything in your insignificant fucking life. When it all comes down to it nobody cares about you other than you. You are irrelevant.

When you get over the fact you are actually a c**t then your life might begin. You need to hurry up though as there is no magic afterlife thing preached by the religious people. Nothing. This is it.

Perhaps get your head out of your fucking arse ASAP as time is already running out.

What you need to do is make the best of what you have and use whatever skills you may have to be as good a person as you can be.

Other than that nobody cares.

 

[Xiaxio]

Here's some counselling for you.

Nobody gives a f**k about you or anything in your insignificant f***ing life. When it all comes down to it nobody cares about you other than you. You are irrelevant.

When you get over the fact you are actually a c**t then your life might begin. You need to hurry up though as there is no magic afterlife thing preached by the religious people. Nothing. This is it.

Perhaps get your head out of your f***ing arse ASAP as time is already running out.

What you need to do is make the best of what you have and use whatever skills you may have to be as good a person as you can be.

Other than that nobody cares.

Thanks for the counseling session! :rofl: and don't worry. I don't believe in any religions.
I'm sure some might see your post as being an ass or something, but I do prefer the blunt and honest truth.
It isn't exactly the truth if you sugar coat everything, now is it?

 

[Xiaxio]

sounds like you're suffering from depression to me

Have for many years actually. Along with PTSD, social axiety, and insomnia. Not exactly what you would call normal oke:

 

[Xiaxio]

Maybe an age thing but didn't you once post up about smoking the green stuff before? If so if you still use it, this may be where some of the anger comes from. They do believe it can have an effect on some peoples mental health.

This could be the answer! I used to smoke every day and thought it chilled me out, it wasn't until I stopped that I realised it actually made me more stressed as soon as the effect wore off and actually getting stoned was just bringing me back to a normal level... Try packing it in could do wonders for your mood and general happiness

IIRC he was/is a daily user sighting that he only used it because it was the only thing that would help him sleep and that his doctors wouldn't prescribe anything to help.

It could be a coincidence but it probably is having an effect if still being used.

This is correct. Aside from the fact that the prescriptions I have been given all seem to have negative effects that outweigh the positive.
Since that post was made I have tried to reduce the use, as like I said, I used it for sleep. Now I am trying to use it only once a week to catch up on sleep as aposed to every night. As I only sleep between 3 - 3 1/2 hours a night, the lack of sleep has severely effected me in a negative way. ei: hard to concentrate, burning eyes, and forgetfulness.

So I reduced the amount I use because I'm honestly not a fan of being dependant on people or drugs.