I have the 2003 3.0i se roadster and hype (on the forum) has a 2007 3.0si coupe. Having driven his it definitely feels more taught and is slightly quicker than mine (at the risk of starting coupe vs roadster banter... ). I'm not sure of this is an age thing or the differences between pre and post facelift.
If you have the choice go for the SI in my opinion as the facelift is a prettier car but make sure you get a proper one with a convertible roof...!