I'm not that experienced... I only did 1 clutch job on my z4
You need a locator tool for the cluch plate. otherwise it wont sit centered and you wont be able to get the priseshaft from the gearbox in it.
When you buy a new pressure plate, there sits a holding piece in the middle to lock the self adjusting mechanism in place.
Because of that holding piece, you cant use a regular locator tool for the clutch plate, as a regular locator tool sticks out.
BMW soved that by making a very short locator tool that you can pull out with a bolt (it has a threaded insert).
If you have a plastic locator maybe you can saw that off to the correct length and afterward pull that out with pliers, or it may also accept a bolt.
I made a locator tool myself (by sticking a small socket in a larger socket), but I didnt have that problem with the holding piece in the center of the pressure plate as my new clutch was a conventional clutch (not self adjusting)
To get the holding piece out of the pressure plate, you need a 14mm hex (thats not in every toolkit).
Also to get the dmf off you need that holding jig that grabs into the starter teeth (you cant hold it by hand, the bolts are pretty tight), and I think the dmf bolts are torx T60. That's also not in every toolkit.
I cant say much about the valeo solid flywheel conversion. I suspect you loose some comfort/premium feel (every car today has a dmf), and maybe the clutch is heavier than stock. I would be able to live with that as my car is completely modified (much more nvh overall) and I would enjoy the perfomance benefits (I think a normal clutch has a more defined bite point), but if it's your daily and use it for it's cruising abilities, I'd go for stock.
Does that flywheel come with it's centerbearing? (I think so, but it is something to check before you get the gearbox off)
If you're going to do this with not your own tools, I suggest you do it with an assistent.
Also to get the exhaust off etc. The first time you do that it's an akward job as it is long, heavy and out of balance. If you've done that 50 times, you get a real feel for it

I also suggest you keep an oxygen torch handy for those exhaust bolts.
I suggest you replace the stock nuts with copper plated nuts, I think those are better. And replace the gaskets obviously.
What you can also do is if you replace the M10 studs in the manifold (when you drill them out or heat them up and hammer them out) is to replace them with an M8 bolt (maybe allenhead for better access) and m8 copper nut (and washers on both sides). That way in the future if everything is rusted/seized again you can angle grind the nut or bolthead off and everything drops out. That's what I did on my current setup (but I have a wider exhaust diameter with different flanges, so access to boltheads is even worse)